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Friday, 21 November 2014

The Importance of Remembering Our Fallen Heroes - Remembrance Day



On the 11th hour of the 11th day on the 11th month, 1918, The First World War ended. By this point, there were over 37 million casualties (both military personnel and civilians) worldwide; making World War I one of the deadliest conflicts in history. Now, on the 11th hour of the 11th day on the 11th month, people come together for two minutes of silence in respect of those that have fallen. What would the world have been like without those soldiers? Why is it important to remember our fallen heroes? And why, do we only take the time to remember them once a year?



Remembrance Day
The First World War ended at 11am on the 11th of November in 1918, with the last shot being fired at 10:57am. Over 4 years of bloody battle had ensued between some of the world’s greatest economic powers, including, of course, the United Kingdom. Over 1.63 million military personnel from the UK were wounded during these 4 years, with a further estimated 800,000 killed. It was one of the deadliest wars in history and it shook the entire world. Now, every 11th of November we hold a Remembrance Day, for all of those who lost their lives or were injured.  Poppies are generally worn in the lead up to Armistice Day, another name for Remembrance Day, in support of the fallen troops and The Royal British Legion charity. Crowds then gather at memorials all over the country on the 11th of November, with the most popular being at The Tower of London. People wait with bated breath as a cannon or gun signifies the beginning of the two minute silence. For those two minutes, we’re encouraged to think about those who lost their lives in order to fight for our freedom. When the two minutes are up, people begin to chatter away again, and life seems to resume as normal.

What would life be like now?
What would life have been like without the courage of all those who fought in World War I? Would you even be reading this blog post? It’s doubtful. If Germany had won World War I then life would be very different now. Experts believe that many of our rights as British citizens would have been stripped away, along with the public lives of our country being demoralised. There is even talk of the British economy collapsing completely, meaning that we could have become an impoverished country. Perhaps even third world. There’s no doubt in my mind that you certainly wouldn’t be sitting here and reading this, if it wasn’t for those brave soldiers.



The Importance of Remembering
So, why is Remembrance Day so important in the UK? Many people throughout the years have tried to sabotage the day, believing it promotes war and the suchlike. However, I don’t believe that this is the case. We can’t change the fact that World War I happened, but we can respect and remember those who fought for our freedom. It is vitally important that we show our gratitude to the families of those who were lost in the war, whilst also raising much needed funds for those who are injured in combat; this is what your money goes towards when buying a poppy from the Royal British Legion. I do also believe, however, that we should remember our fallen heroes for more than just two minutes once a year. After all, these brave men and women battled for more than two minutes in their lifetime. They should be remembered throughout the year, for their courage and determination. Without them, there’s just no knowing what life would be like now; although chances are, you would not have the freedom you have today.



Please remember to give thought to our fallen heroes as often as you can, whether that be on Remembrance Day, Christmas Day, or any day when you have a few moments to spare. 

Lest we forget. 

Sunday, 6 July 2014

Life...

This weekend, I attended the wedding service of someone I've known for as long as I can remember.

They had the most beautiful service, and of course the bride looked stunning. Everything about it was perfect. The decorations, outfits, the order of services that were given out, the atmosphere...just everything!

It only seems like yesterday that the groom, his sister, my brother, and two other mutual friends (who lived in the same village as us, and went to the same school etc etc etc) used to build snowmen, and try to create igloos. The quote we would all give you if you asked any of us to name one from playing out in the snow was "my numb is bum". I think the cold got to her head a little!

It amazes me how quickly time is going, and how much changes as you grow up. I'm only 19, but things have changed so much from when we were those children out playing (especially in the snow!), and the movies nights and 'get togethers' as we got older. Now we've all moved on and are living all over the country - Bristol, Leicester, London etc. One is married (and another soon to be). Everyone is moving on with their lives.

We've all met some incredible people who we now call our friends, we've done some amazing things and had some great experiences. We barely keep in touch, but when we all meet up it's like there's never been any time apart.

To think we've grown so quickly to being in the same primary school, to now living independently, having jobs/studying at university such seem crazy.

I guess the point of this post is to just say:


  • People come and go in your life - appreciate the time you have with them, even if it's only a moment
  • Appreciate life for what it is - every changing/a series of experiences, make the most of each one
  • Time doesn't ever stop because you want it to
  • Make the most of being in the moment - you'll never get another exactly like it


Make a list of what/who you're grateful for and make sure they know it!

Here's a small part of my list:


  • Family
  • friends (including those who I don't keep in contact with. I'll always cherish good memories and time with great people)
  • Acquaintances - the people I don't know the names of but who have brightened my day with little things like exchanging a smile, or moving your bag on a bus for me to sit down, holding the door an extra second so it doesn't slam in my face etc. 
  • The every day things - having a bed, a home, warmth, heat, everything I want, most of the things I want, an education, clothes, the very thoughtful and kinds messages/gifts from friends (especially when there's no special occasion!), a nice conversation, people caring, photographs, memories.... I could go on
  • The big things - having my work published in a book, modelling, travelling to Italy/Malaysia/Australia/France/Switzerland, my car
I'm sure the little things/big things should be the other way around if it was judged on how important they were to me. The list could go on forever, but writing it all down makes you realise how blessed we all are.

I've realised it's the people I meet that I appreciate most in life. So many people come and go, but looking back, every person I've met has taught me something. Whether that's not to judge, or to accept people as they are, or that not everyone/everything in life is bad, life is what you make it and it's far better when you're accepting of things for what they are, don't try to change people, I could go on... but here's a big thank you to everyone who has impacted my life and taught me something, no matter how it was taught, I'm now in a place where I can be grateful for it.

Appreciate those things on your list whilst they are there, because they may not be tomorrow.


I'm sure I didn't appreciate the happy snow days (for example) anywhere near as much as I do now. Looking back, it's the smallest, simple, everyday things I enjoy and appreciate more - being with genuinely great people I call friends, not the material things in life.

I've realised how many people there are that need to be made aware of how great they are for who they are, not for what they do...now for reality to resume...ie.bed time!